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Post by layla4dan on Sept 2, 2009 3:37:52 GMT -5
this is a real problem right now as i unfortunately work with the guy.
heres wat happened.
he took me out kissed me, then said he wanted to be friends, then he said he might ask me out, and then i found out he'd lied and when i confronted him he blamed me!
so i decided to stay away from him but its not that easy. i removed him from facebook, and that was it.
thing is i still have feelings for him, what do i do? he wont even tlk to me...
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Post by stainedglass on Sept 2, 2009 5:31:44 GMT -5
I'm sorry that's happened.
It's a bit of a useless answer, but time is really the best cure. You have to give it time and eventually you'll see him as the jerk he sounds.
You shouldn't try to get with someone else at the moment to make him jealous or to make him see what he's missing out on because this won't work and will only end up making you hurt more. He doesn't sound worth your time or effort, so just ignore him and be polite but no more when you're working with him.
In the meantime, spend lots of time with your friends and have girly days out instead to try and take your mind off him. I hope you feel better soon!
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Post by layla4dan on Sept 2, 2009 5:56:17 GMT -5
thanks, i'll try that. he really is a git. no wonder he cant have a relationship;
stuff him.
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Post by allego on Sept 3, 2009 5:18:11 GMT -5
Yep, sorry that happened to you, but stainedglass is absolutly right. Don't bother yourself with this guy, just ignore him and be polite but no more, exactly like stainedglass said.
Get out with friends and you'll soon find someone who worth you're attention.
And stay mistrutful with the "I might ask you out" declaration, it mainly can be translated by "I won't do that, or only if I find nothing else to kill time". It seems a little cynical, but it's really that. Don't take it for you : some people just can't see nice stuff, even when they have it thrown in their face.
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Post by layla4dan on Sept 3, 2009 10:10:16 GMT -5
ok, heres the thing.
we made up. we're friends again. but if he plays me once, he's out.
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Post by stainedglass on Sept 3, 2009 10:23:39 GMT -5
I'm sorry to say it, but he will do it again, because he sounds the sort. You have to draw a line with him at friendship or else you'll continue to get hurt.
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Post by allego on Sept 3, 2009 11:10:44 GMT -5
Again, I agree with stainedglass.
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Post by layla4dan on Sept 4, 2009 4:42:29 GMT -5
yeh, we had a good talk, and i think he understands wat he did. and i did promise i wouldn't leave him, and he said the same, so maybe the friends thing will work.
although he did give a biy mate of mine a right look coz he said he fancied me...
i'm goin out on the weekend so maybe i'll find someone then lol=)
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Post by allego on Sept 4, 2009 6:53:31 GMT -5
Yahh, let's hunt some guy this weekend ^^And have fun !
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Post by layla4dan on Oct 1, 2009 5:51:29 GMT -5
ok, so situation has taken a turn, another guy who showed interest in me i turned down, and he went and hit james. i legged it to him in tears and practically srangled him from huggin himm so tight.
so now i think i might still be in love with him, thats why i was so protective. and my birthdays comin up, so maybe on my birthday i should say something? he was askin around to see if i was seein anyone, although its none of his buisness, so thats confused me.
wat do i do? really cnfused now, and someone invited the other guy.... and i might be movin out with my sister, i dont need this now=(
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